It is a historical and genetic tendency that people conceive to 'fall' and not 'rise'in love-that is why most of the 'affairs' end up in break ups and heartbreaks.
If we choose to enter in any emotional relationship with nothing else but unconditional love and gratitude, things will be different and we will always have bliss in such relationships. 99% of pain is caused by 'conditions' and 'expectations' in love. Whereas love is pure, unconditional divine opportunity to grow together.
Always keep focus on your 'priorities' and not upon 'people' you want,when you work and think upon priorities ,you will always attract the people who are in sync with your 'priorities' and in harmony with your personality.
This is how soulmates are attracted under any condition, anytime in any aspect of life.
There are only 3 factors which brings your soulmate to door of your soul-
Unconditional love
Gratitude for opportunity to be in a relationship
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Focus upon priorities and goals and not upon people.
