AGE AND SETBACKS ARE NO BAR TO DREAM AND SUCCESS
DON’T BE AFRAID TO MAKE 101TH ATTEMPT TO YOUR GOAL EVEN AFTER 100 SETBACKS
NEVER BE AFRAID TO TRY ONE MORE TIME
WHY AFRAID TO TRY IT ONE MORE TIME?
Whether we are born with gr8 wealth or not , it is our birthright to be rich-happy and prosperous, thus said DR.JOSEPH MURPHY, the gr8 writer of POWER OF SUBCONSCIOUS MIND. He writes; “Money is a subconscious conviction.” And I find him true to the core. There is a comparatively new book, “SECRET”, it’s a wonderful testament of those people, who have applied laws of subconscious mind and laws of attraction in life and rose to gr8 financial, materialistic and spiritual success.
I regularly have the youngsters, who say, they can’t afford the charges for consultancy or right contemporary education, very frankly, I do not subscribe to this pathetic point of view of WE CAN’T…
I never said this words to anyone in my life, couldn’t say, even with 20 paisa in pocket and 3 days hunger in stomach. How can a 18 year old can speak like that?
“ Sir, we are students, we are poor.”
Now tell me, who is responsible for anybody’s poverty, if the person in question is not born on street and had no opportunities in life?
Most of the youngsters today are doing jobs at young age and that is truly fine, those who can’t find one are mostly lazy or destined to remain poor.
LET’S CELEBRATE GLOBALIZATION AND YOUTH HAVING THE FUN;
I love to see youngsters, who work in call centers, having their own money to spend in Malls and other elite places, that is good and very good, as this is the right age to enjoy cloths, cars , bikes and everything glossy. They work hard in night shifts, earn money and spend it, thank you GLOBALIZATION, we have happy youngsters, zooming on bikes around us, we have independent girls, who can take their own decisions, may God bless all these young men and women with more and more prosperity. Only thing they need to remember that they must use some money for higher education with a higher purpose in life. As just being happy with a CALL CENTRE job today will be gr8 disappointment tomorrow, which we can see on the faces of thousands of American youngsters and mid age people, who are deprived of easy jobs and due to lake of education reduced to poverty.
We must not forget the value of continuously educating ourselves in related fields, we must be best specialist in our desired field, we must have a definite dream connected to service of humanity, if you have all this, and you will remain forever young like me.
I am so pissed up when mid age people like me complain of youngsters having fun, I ask them, is that your fathers money? What’s bad if they are having fun with their hard earned money? In fact I feel young, when I see them enjoying the newly found wealth, I silently pray that they are also saving and investing rightly enough as goddess of wealth do not like to be ill-treated. We as elders, just need to tell them this thing and pray for their wellbeing, as being elders ,we always want fantastic things for our younger brothers and kids, it’s like god answered our prayers, so let’s be happy in the prosperity of youngsters, let’s congratulate them for their fortunes.
YOUNG LIFE CRISIS;
80 out of 100 youngsters, who approach me for anything want to be very safe in life. What we have to understand early in life is that SECURITY IS A SUPERSTITION. Greatest President, India has ever produced, Mr. APJ KALAM rightly says that “ Small dreams are crime, Dream Big”, it’s so true, this world belongs to big dreamers , all the materialistic growth is thanks to impossible, irresistible dreamers . I have observed that kids coming from middle income group are initially dream big but slowly accept the mediocrity as part of practical life. Once you stop accepting challenges you stop being young ,process of slow death of youth begins. We have to be careful about circle w move around, the girl we love and family we live in. We must avoid friends and relatives, who are addicted to mediocrity. As Mediocrity is infectious, a lover, who is happy in just a 1 BHK house and want nothing but time from her present lover and future husband is a barricade in life. She either has to improve or get out.
HOW MARRIED PEOPLE MAKE THEIR LIFE HELL;
I have a very close relative of mine, who could have been a great economist; she was so studious that she passed MA [ECONOMICS] privately as an university topper and gold medalist, pessimism entered when she was not able to finish her Ph.D. due to a truly ..b@#$%^ professor, who was her university appointed guide for Ph.D. She got a job in Bank and married to a equally pessimist person who thought that atomic war is possible anytime, both of them even after no trouble spent a finless life ,why?
Just because of a terrible set back, she never look after other vistas and gave up her life to mediocrity. She is my guardian angel and I love her for being my aunty but I feel sorry for her, once her husband visited our joint family and I found out that her husband has gr8 knowledge of stock market and do wonders, if wife supports him, when I asked her to support him , she denied point blank, as even after being a banker she considered EQUITY BUSINESS a gambling racket. This share market alone could have been a tool of reconciliation and fun for this couple but lady refused to share this fun with her husband, so husband went back to his job after VRS and they continue to lead same juiceless life under one roof.
INSECURITY IS A RESULT OF NOT HAVING TRUST IN GOD;
I found that insecurity is direct result of not having the faith in god and not praying enough. People who pray are generally not afraid of taking risk, as they are sure that they have a invisible help available in form of their chosen deity or Guru or anything. And trust me this invisible help is most important factor in our life. I can tell you this with more than confidence as prayers have brought me out of terrible illness and horrible setbacks, which may instigate people to end their life. Having faith in prayers always gives you a path, where road is declared CLOSED forever in life.
My dear brothers and sisters, take my words, whenever you feel that you must give up your dream and choose to some mediocre way of living, turn to god, turn to prayers, you may have to do something different for time being but never be afraid for lake of money or resources, if you will insist, you will receive all the wealth and much more to fulfill your dreams, every resource will be at your doorstep but never ever repeat these sentences;
-I AM POOR
-PLEASE GIVE THIS TO ME FOR FREE, AS I AM POOR
- I CAN’T DO THIS, AS I AM POOR
- THIS IS TOO BIG A TASK FOR YOU AND ME, LET’S FORGET IT.
Instead of this say this;
- I AM RICH, GOD PROVIDES ME WHATEVER I NEED WHENEVER….
- I DON’T WANT ANYTHING FOR FREE, I WILL PAY FOR THIS
- NOTHING IS TOO BIG A TASK ,IF TWO OF US PRAY FOR IT, LET’S PRAY , WE WILL FIND A WAY TO ACCOMPLISH THIS TASK WITH DISTINCTION.
[Writer Shri Anirudh M.Dhodapkar is Chairman to Media/ Entrepreneurship/Banking/Film/TV Project Consultancy firm “KRS MEDIA INTEGRATION”, he writes for 350 Business Portals thrice a week. He is an Educator and Reiki Healer. He has overcome unimaginable circumstances and emerged victorious in 36 years of his life, that is why, he is willing to help everyone with prayers n gratitude, Email; krsresponse@gmail.com, Writer is also known as KHEMRAJ D.ANIRUDH]
